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Consider these statistics. Do
they seem altogether too familiar? Perhaps you have seen this in
your own family history. The chances are good that you have seen
it ...maybe up close and personal.
Are you ready to say,
"The buck stops here?"
Is it time for you to begin making some changes for yourself by making better choices? If not now, when?
If you have not been to a really scary movie lately,
and if you are really in the mood to be shocked beyond belief, do an
internet search on divorce statistics or men who pay child
support or fatherless homes ...you get the picture! Consider
yourself warned. It is not a pretty sight. It's enough to make you
cry!
Is sorrow, divorce, broken relationships our
destiny in life? Do we have any better choices to make? We
must find better choices to make! The alternative is too grim
to say the least.
The following statistics are some of the
least frightening statistics
that we could find. Grab a box of tissues. Get a bowl of chocolate
ice-cream -- and cry! Because statistically speaking, this has either
already happened to your grand-parents, your parents, you, your children,
or it's going to happen to you or your children if
you don't intentionally do something to prevent it from happening.
Divorce Magazine reported
these statistics:
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In 1997, there were nearly 1.7 million divorces.
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In 1998, there were 19.4 million divorced adults.
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A marriage lasts 7.2 years on average before
divorce occurs.
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In 1995, 43% of all marriages will result in
divorce within the first 15 years.
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In 1997, 50% of all first marriages end in divorce.
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60 percent of all remarriages end in divorce.
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50% of all women cohabit before they turn age
30.
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70% of the couples that cohabit longer than five
years eventually get married.
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Since 1997, 2.5 million people get a divorce
annually.
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In 1996, children of divorce were 50% more likely
than their counterparts from intact families to divorce.
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4.1 million single mothers never married.
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In 1997, 32% of all babies born were to unmarried
women.
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Since 1997, 1 million children became the victims
of divorce annually.
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In 1998, 27% of family households with children
had only one parent.
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In 1998, 20 million children were living with
only one parent.
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In 1998, 84% of children living in single-parent
homes were living with their mother.
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Fatherless
homes account for 63% of youth suicides, 90% of homeless/runaway
children, 85% of children with behavior problems, 71% of high school
dropouts, 85% of youths in prison, and well over 50% of teen mothers.
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In 1997, 80% of the divorces were due to irreconcilable
differences.
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